Looking to settle down? Read this, first!

Recently, I found out, that a co-worker was leaving, to go back to school, for her PhD.  It got me to thinking, how much I would love to go back, for my master’s degree. But, with a kid, a house, a full-time job, etc., that just isn’t feasible, for me, at the moment.

Then, I started thinking about all the things, I wish I’d done, before I settled down (i.e., got married, got a house, had a kid).  Here’s my list, of sorts…

  • Gone to grad school (and even post-graduate). Could have done this, while married, but it would’ve been easier, if I was single
  • Travel the world. Again, could have done this, while married. Just, not with a four-year-old.
  • Lived on my own. I moved in, with the hubster, right out of college – directly, from my parents’ house. I’ll never experience, what’s its like, to live by myself.

I know it’s brief, and I guess that’s good. Especially, since I love my life, as it is, right now.

What about you, what’s on your “Before You Settle Down,” list?

Six Helpful Tips for Dealing with Eczema

I’ve had eczema for as long as I can remember. As I’ve gotten older, it’s gotten better. But, during the winter months, living with it can sometimes be uncomfortable at best. Here are five tips that I find helpful, in dealing with eczema:

  1. Avoid over-bathing. I love to take long, hot showers. Unfortunately, during the winter months, I can’t.
  2. Bathe in warm (not hot) water. Hot water can dry out the skin, so those short showers I take – luke warm.
  3. Use a “non-soap.” I use Dove, because it doesn’t dry out my skin like soap does.
  4. Apply moisturizer frequently. I carry lotion with me at all times. Anytime I’m feeling dry, I break it out and lotion up.
  5. Avoid scented soaps, detergents, etc. I use any “free and clear” detergent. My skin seems to like it better
  6. Stay away from wool clothing. Or, at least wear some sort of undergarment to shield you skin from direct contact.

I hope this helps any of you out there dealing with this very annoying and uncomfortable skin condition. If you have any additional tips, please let me know!

Disclaimer: I am not a medical doctor. I’m just a mom who has eczema, trying to deal.

Hush Little Baby

As I type this, it’s almost 11:45 p.m., and The Kid is still awake. Currently, he’s whining about he’s, “not sleepy.”  You may be asking yourselves, why we let him stay up this late. Well, we didn’t. The bedtime process started, well before 8 o’clock. He’s just milked it, these past three-and-a-half hours.

I figured, since I’m up, I’d peruse the Internet, looking for some sort of help, with this very common parenting problem. I should note, when he was a baby, we had some success, with the Ferber Method. Anyway, here are a few books, that interested me, that I found online.

I’m going to see if I can find my book, by Ferber. It has to be around here, somewhere. Anyone have any other suggestions, you’d recommend we try?

5 Tips for the Working Mom Looking for Work-Life Balance

It’s hard, being a working mom. Millions of women, do it every day, but figuring out a way to balance work and home life, escapes most of us.

Between meeting deadlines for work, caring for their children, spouse and home – we certainly have a lot on our plates. So much so, that at times, it feels like we’re tying to keep all the plates spinning at the same time. It even seems like we’re working two, three or even four jobs at once!

Some days are better than others, when you may feel like you have everything smoothly, and other days you may feel like nothing is going right.

But with careful preparation and scheduling, working moms can make your days – and nights – run a bit more seamlessly.

Here are a few tips, to help you out:

  1. Try not to bring your work home with you. Keeping evenings and weekends somewhat “work-free,” will give you time to get those household tasks done and spend some time with your family, rather it’s watching a movie, playing a game, or going to the park or library.
  2. Prepare meals ahead of time. You can freeze them, and use them for meals during the work week.
  3. Pack lunches and lay out clothing, the night before. That will make your mornings a little more stress-free.
  4. Put essential items (car keys, purse, briefcase, book bags, etc.) in the same place, every evening. You’ll be able to locate them easier, during the morning frenzy.
  5. Be consistent with the bedtime schedule and routine. That way, your children know that it’s almost bedtime.

As working moms, we may never find the formula for a perfect work-life balance, but with a little practice and consistency, things should definitely become a little easier.

10 Simple Things You Can Do, to Help Save the Environment

This morning while The Kid and I were brushing our teeth, he looked at me, and said, “Mom,  Special Agent Oso says to cut the water off, when you’re brushing your teeth. It saves the environment.”  So, I sheepishly turned off the water, and finished brushing my teeth. That conversation, got me to thinking…what are some small things we can be doing, to help save the environment?

Here’s a list of 10:

  1. Turn the water off, when brushing your teeth.
  2. Take showers, instead of baths. Our shower head has this really cool feature, where you can turn off the water flow, while you’re washing.
  3. Turn off lights, when you leave the room.
  4. Replace your traditional light bulbs, with eco-friendly ones.
  5. Use re-usable bags, when you shop.
  6. Drink tap water (filtered or unfiltered), instead of bottled water.
  7. When possible, walk or bike, instead of driving.
  8. Unplug electronics, if not in use (e.g. your cell phone charger).
  9. Recycle. Even if your community doesn’t have pick up, for your recyclables, there are plenty of drop off sites around.
  10. Print on both sides of the paper (if practical).

The Hubster’s contribution???  “If it’s yellow, let it mello; if it’s brown, flush it down.  He was kidding, of course. (I hope. :) )