You Know You’re a Blogger When…

  1. You keep a notebook by the bed, just in case you have ideas for posts, in the middle of the night. Last night, while The Hub and I were watching a movie,  I suddenly got a few ideas, for blog posts, so I quickly grabbed my notebook and jotted them down.
  2. You approach and/or react to everyday situations, with the mindset of, “I wonder if this would make a good blog post. Yesterday, the kid was in rare form. A total a-hole. Nothing I did, could get him “right.” That triggered my idea of doing a links post, about disciplining a child (should be up soon).
  3. You’re out and about – or even at home – you’re taking pictures, not for the sake of preserving memories, but because they would go great, with a blog post you’re writing. When the kid and I were at Virginia Beach, I took a ton of landscape and crowd shots, so I could use them, instead of stock photos.
  4. You have friends and family members coming up to you, beginning the conversation with, “I’ve got a great idea for a blog post, for you…” The hubs is the one who does this the most. Good thing, his ideas are always good!
  5. You’ve just witnessed your friends or family, in a funny or embarrassing situation, and they look at you and say, “I’d better not see you posting about this, on that blog of yours.” I get this a lot, especially from the hubs.

Well, that’s my list. What do you think? Did I miss anything? Let me know, in the comments section, below. If I get enough, I’ll do a follow-up post, and give you credit for your suggestion.

Welcome to the “NEW” The Mom with Moxie

New and Improved TMwM

Hello, hello, hello my friends! Thanks, for stopping by. How do you like my new design? I partnered with the lovely Heather from Viva la Violette to do the design. Didn’t she do a fabulous job?! Going in, I wanted something light, simple & clean. I think Heather hit the nail on the head.

I’m still going through, cleaning things up that don’t fit the new design so please “pardon my dust.”

Anyway, let me know what you think.

By the way, are you following me on Facebook and Twitter?

Blogging Serendipity

I often get asked, how I got into blogging. It was very serendipitious, really.

The idea first came to me late spring/early summer of 2010. I wasn’t working at the time, and was looking for something to fill the time between taking care of the kid, the hubs, the home & the job search.

I’d always loved writing & had recently discovered a few blogs that I liked – both “mommy” and not.

Come July, I was still tossing around the idea of starting a blog, but didn’t know what to write about. What would me my “niche?” It was then that I got a freelance position with a digital public relations firm, where one of my main responsibilities would be to “pitch” bloggers on behalf of clients. Needless to say, I was exposed to all kinds of new blogs. Mommy blogs, fashion blogs, tech blogs, gossip blogs, you name it, there was a blog for it. Really, people were just blogging about their lives and/or what interested them. That was when I decided that I would start a mommy blog, with a dash of my special brand of randomness thrown in. I thought that if I found these people’s lives interesting – maybe someone would think the same about mine.

Once I decided to start a blog, I had to come up with name. I’d worked in communications for nine years at that point, so I knew how important a catchy and memorable blog name was. I started out by writing down all the things I wanted my blog (and by extension me) to embody. I wanted it (me) to be bold, spirited, funny, brave, fearless, honest, real, etc. I started putting those words in to, looking different words to use as a blog name. The word “moxie” kept coming up. Eventually I settled on “The Mom with Moxie.” It was exactly what I’d been looking for. Blogging was exactly what I’d been looking for.

I love blogging. It allows me a creative outlet for my writing, lets me keep people updated with what’s going on with me and my family (aka the hubster and the kid), and has allowed me to make some awesome friends in the blogosphere. Blogging has also opened so many doors for me to work with brands and community managers. But like everything else that requires a huge amount of time and effort to maintain – I got blogged-out. I even took a break from blogging. But, I couldn’t stay away. Even worse I got restless with the direction The Mom with Moxie was going. Instead of quitting, I decided to start a different blog.

I’ve actually had a few different blogs, over the last 2 years. In addition to The Mom with Moxie, I’ve had – my PR, social media and marketing site/blog; – my “I want to express myself as more than a mom” blog. Eventually (this past year) I decided to embrace The Mom with Moxie brand, and just mix in a bit of the PR, marketing and social media with the crazy randoms, and the momisms.

It wasn’t until then that I decided to get serious about blogging. You know, posting more regularly, looking into advertising and affiliate links, etc. I hired an awesome graphic designer to create a new look and feel for The Mom with Moxie, I signed up for a few blogging newsletters, I scoured the internet for tips and ideas to make The Mom with Moxie a place women wanted to visit. A place I’d want to visit.

I am honestly so happy with where my blog is right now. And I can’t wait to see where this adventure called blogging takes me.

Follow #Local4Shopping for Great Black Friday Deals in #Detroit


Last year, through a partnership with the Hay There Social Media TweetTeam™, I had the privilege of working with some of my fellow Detroit-area bloggers on a WDIV Local4 News Black Friday shopping initiative.

I’m so excited to report I’m participating once again, this year. So, if you’re in the Detroit area, and plan on shopping the sales on the big day, be sure to follow #Local4Shopping on Twitter for all the great deals my fellow bloggers will be tweeting!

My husband finds it hilarious that I’m involved in anything Black Friday related, since I never went out before I had a child. Now, I’m all about the deals. Last year, thanks to my cousin babysitting overnight, he and I were able to just stay up, and head out at 3 a.m. that morning. Unfortunately, the hubs has to work this year (boo), so I find myself having to come up with a new game plan.

In addition to tweeting deals, my fellow bloggers and I will be featured on a news segment. So, be sure to tune in to WDIV Local4 News tonight at 11 p.m., for the story!

Here’s a video of last year’s story. I’ll be sure to post this year’s, as soon as I can.

Don’t forget to follow all us #Local4Shopping TweetTeam™ Members on Twitter:

Join in the conversation:

What’s your plan for Black Friday? Do you even have a plan? Or, do you just “wing it?”

Have a tween that uses social media?

Do you have a tween that uses social media? Are you terrified that they’re doing and saying things that will forever be in the Internet? Not sure what to do, or where to turn?

Let me introduce you to Saving Face.

Saving Face is a “complete social media guide for parents that turns your tech-savvy tween into a smart digital citizen one interactive lesson at a time.”


For just $47 you’ll get seven videos that will teach you how to be a proactive parent in the digital area.  Videos in modules include:


  • How to raise a good digital citizen
  • Social media and school in this digitally connected era
  • How to be a superb social media role model for your tween


  • Social media stats that will shape your parenting
  • How to NOT be a “Facebook-challenged” parent
  • 6 SAFE social media sites specifically for tweens


  • 5 ground rules and settings for your tech-savvy tween
  • The ins and outs of photo and video sharing
  • Guiding the parent’s activity on Facebook


  • Identifying the good, the bad and the ugly
  • Coaching a tween’s behavior with a litmus test
  • 10 social media etiquette tips for tweens to live by


  • Teaching digital accountability and maturity
  • Examples and lessons on becoming a positive online influencer
  • Don’t be the parent of a Facebook drama queen or king


  • Understanding and monitoring this dangerous online behavior
  • How to coach your tween to be an upstander vs. a bystander
  • Empowering tweens to help tweens


  • Shaping your child’s digital footprint early
  • How to ensure your child is maintaining a strong online reputation
  • Preparing for college and beyond with social media

Since the kid is only six, I’m not at the point where I need to worry. But, when that time comes, I know I’ll be using Saving Face.

To learn more about Saving Face, or to purchase it, click here.

Do you have a tween who’s on social media? How do you make sure they’re doing the right thing?

Disclosure: affiliate links used.

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